Petting and necking, making out

Hi guys,

A week has elapsed since my last post in this blog. It is business as usual at my workplace these days. We are in a time of transition and uncertainty. The only thing I can do is just put in my eight hours Monday through Friday and have a businesslike relationship with my direct supervisor. That is for the best for me. Her bosses have high regard for my work. I am grateful for that kind of regard.

How does a guy unwind after the conclusion of a work week. Well, he may go to his favorite restaurant with his sweetheart or enjoy the camaraderie of a neighborhood bar over drinks. Or he may watch television to relax.

Straight guys go out on dates with their sweethearts. Particularly among teenagers, a guy with his girlfriend out on a serious date is a special time. Often their affection may be physical with kissing, petting, and necking, making out. Such physicality may stoke the flames of sexual ardor among a guy and his girl. This ardor may lead to serious loving making in bed. "Going all the way" is sexual congress, coitus to its logical conclusion in a sexual climax which melts hearts and brings about union. Of course, societal norms prevent this consummation long before, at least until marriage. But we live in times when all is possible.

Gay guys are perhaps more direct in their lovemaking. Two men making love are the intensification of male sexual passion to the power of two, if not more. I know. There is nothing more beautiful or more powerful than turning on a guy through sexual stimulation. Yes, there are the subtle actions of kissing, petting, and necking among male lovers. It is awesomely beautiful seeing male lovers making out. But invariably their attention is focused upon their genitals, often in the state of arousal. That is the epitome of horniness and randiness in the male. Most sexually aroused guys are direct in what they want from their partners. They want to suck and fuck.

The same can be said about male masturbation. Most guys engage in a serious date with their penis. The frequency of such dating varies. The male is perhaps most sexually potent in his late teens or early twenties. It is shown in the steep angle of his erection, his pork missile as it juts out of his pants and aims for the skies. Most guys during that period may masturbate once every day or even several times a day. Thereafter the frequency lessens to two or three times a week. By the time, a man enters his forties or fifties, he may masturbate once a week or once every two weeks. That is my experience presently.

For most men entering middle age, masturbation may be the main form of sex that is enjoyable for themselves. Many women as they age lose interest in frequent sex, or sex altogether. So a married man is left with his one-eyed buddy between his legs. Masturbation provides a safe outlet for his sexual drive and keeps him in touch the dynamic of his male sexuality which is filled with pleasure and health giving vitality. Likewise for most gay men and many single unattached bachelors, masturbation serves the same purpose as their married brothers. Masturbation is the great equalizer and leveler among males, irrespective of their sexual orientation. Many guys from their teens may be drawn toward each other in mutual masturbation or group masturbation, a circle jerk. There is something irresistible about jacking another guy's penis and he yours. This is concrete, affirming mutuality.

Most guys, especially if they live in the country, love the outdoors. Traditionally it was men who spent time outdoors hunting and the women kept hearth and home, perhaps gathering fruits and berries, at least in prehistoric times. I realize that this sounds sexist. But even now, many males are in close touch with nature, the cosmos.

But there is a different cosmos, that is found within. Mystics through spiritual practice, both male and female, are in touch with both the outer and inner cosmos.

But there is the inner cosmos that is physical that sexual expression unlocks. Coitus, sexual intercourse, fucking unlocks the inner physical cosmos to fucker and fuckee. Likewise for the dedicated masturbator, a rich inner cosmos is opened up and explored, a cosmos of sensual pleasures beyond measure. For a RIC'ed baby boomer jock like me, I revel in the pleasures my RIC'ed penis and bulbous, mushroom glans deliver to me beyond measure.

Celebration!!! Circed male celebration

Hi guys,

Today two months of waiting ended with a good, solid evaluation from my supervisor. Now I can get back to enjoying life again. It is still in the dead of winter with below than normal temperatures. But the days are getting longer and Mr. and Mrs. Mallard Duck are once again conducting a daily courtship ritual in the central courtyard lily pond here.

What do guys do when they have passed a severe test in life, whether it be a job performance evaluation, or returning in victory from war, or having played a good, solid game??? Well many guys celebrate by having sex. A good fuck or a long, sweet and earnest masturbation session makes a guy glad he's a man!

That is how it is with me tonight. I came away from the meeting this morning relieved, a big load taken off my shoulders, and once again I can laugh. My RIC'ed penis and his two bros want in the celebration. And tonight I finally got an order of one dozen C-IN2 jockstraps ordered early December from Hisroom: 4 medium white jocks and 8 medium gray jocks. My RIC'ed one-eye buddy is throbbing in delight jutting out of both a GO Softwear suspensory jock and a Munsingwear Kangaroo Pouch briefs. I am teasing him right now. He revels in the attention I am giving him and wants more and more loving. I am going to give it to him with a slow teasing love.

Take care guys

The glans as spark plug

Hi guys,

Boy! I'm horny this afternoon, in a sexual daze, sexual bliss washing over me from my semi-erect RIC'ed penis and cumfilled balls in one of my new C-IN2 jockstraps, a black one. Boy, these jocks hold your male equipment in the way jockstraps were created to do.

This blog post is a meditation on the glans penis. I have spoken much about the male glans in almost every post of this blog which is devoted to me as a baby boomer RIC'ed jock. When I slipped on that very first athletic supporter at the beginning of 7th grade, it was a sexual awakening for me. I just loved how that youth size Johnson & Johnson athletic supporter supported and held my fast developing adolescent testicles and RIC'ed penis. I got one of those throbbing erections when I slipped on that for the best time, so I had to readjust myself with my penis in the twelve o'clock position, vertical like a missile ready for launch. The rockhard boner was scrunched against the waistband of my newly bought jockstrap. Immediately I loved how the poroknit jock pouch caressed and stimulated my glans. It was a feeling that I felt never before in my life. It was tantamount to a sexual awakening in which I was being propelled into male sexual maturity. I could have experienced my first full-fledged orgasm with ejaculation of semen while wearing that jock.

Time for another anatomy lession. I used the term male glans for a reason. Females have a glans too. This may come as a surprise to many men and boys. The male glans is called glans penis, penis head, cockhead, knob, mushroom, helmet. The female glans is called glans clitoridis, glans of the clitoris, the female counterpart to the male penis. All guys have a glans. In uncircumcised guys, the glans is most or all the time covered by the foreskin. If a guy unsheathes his foreskin, his glans tends to be arrow shaped. But there are quite a few uncircumcised guys with mushroom glans which even show in an unfurled foreskin. The glans does flare out noticeably when a guy is circumcised, particularly if he is RIC'ed as a neonatal. RIC'ed guys tend to have glans that are absolute mushrooms or knobs or helmets. Their glans are absolutely awesome!

Which leads us to appearance. The glans was meant to complement or complete the look of a guy's penis. A sexually aroused guy not only has an erect penis but also a flared glans. Hence the glans serves as sexual signaling for prospective mates or an inducement for sexual congress with a partner. A woman will be turned on by her partner's erect penis and flared glans in the same way that a man will be turned on by a woman's breasts. Guys attracted to other men are natural horndogs when it comes to another penis, any penis. I think that is hardwired in the gay and bi psyche.

Of course there is sensation in the jam-packed nerves of the glans which gives sexual expression its charge. Hence, the glans, I believe, acts as a spark plug to its owner and to the partner in the sex act. I think the Good Lord planned that way as an inducement for the propagation of the species, of which sexual pleasure and satisfaction is a major spine-off.

In many of my chats with other guys on the Net, particularly on the #jack-off-str8 chatroom on mIRC, I think that most men just love to suck cock, even though they may be adverse to it or not admit it to themselves. I think all this goes back to babyhood. Babies from day one after birth suck naturally. It is instinctual for a baby to suck his/her mother's breasts. The erect circumcised penis with a flared glans oozing precum invites a willing male mouth. Guys love their cock being sucked by a willing male mouth and many guys just love to suck cock. Women are more reticent which seems natural. Guys seem instinctively know how to give oral pleasure to another male's genital organ mainly because the exquisite pleasure he gives himself through masturbation. The feeling of a warm tongue and mouth on a guy's glans gives him exquisite pleasure. I suppose it is similar to the penis thrusting back and forth in a woman's vagina (although I have never had that experience). Now I will be technical in my use of language. There is a Latin word for sucking cock. That is fellatio. Now it is interesting that fellatio has both an active and passive meaning. The one who receives a cock to suck is doing it in a sort of passive way, but also in an active way, if he is a good cocksucker or fellator. But there is also the act of face fucking, giving cock to suck, which in earlier years, perhaps decades or centuries was called irrumatio.

An experienced male lover of women will carry this over to cunnilingus, licking a woman's cunt which technically consists of the urethral oriface, vagina, labiora majora and minora. There is also the mons pubis (covered by female pubic hair), the clitoris, and prepuce. Now the female clitoris and prepuce corresponds to the male penis and foreskin if left uncircumcised. Some women prefer their prepuce to be excised thus making eh clitoris more available to her partner. This is essentially female circumcision, these days a most controversial topic of discussion on the world stage. But female circumcision as practiced in some nations is essentially a form of mutilation. A few years ago I had a most interesting chat on Yahoo IM with a doctor who himself was circumcised as an adult in his 30's. He encountered a lady who had her prepuce or hood surgically removed through circumcision. He thought himself an experienced lover of women in that he enjoyed giving cunnilingus to women who loved his expert tongue licking their "private parts", e.g. clitoris and entrance to their vagina. Now the clitoris of a sexually aroused woman is itself erect and the glans clitoridis will flare out in sexual excitement much in the same way the flared glans of the erect penis of a sexually charged man. I learned much from the two chats on Yahoo IM from this Ohio doctor on both male and female circumcision and sex itself.

I used to have many chats with a guy named Gary somewhere in the Maryland suburbs of DC on mIRC on all these potent topics. Gary and I had alot in common. Both he and I were RIC'ed, had a common interest in jocks, cups, and Munsingwear Kangaroo briefs. He was a total jackoff artist, totally into this circumcised penis, and especially into his glans. But Gary, so he said, enjoyed loving women. He knew how to "eat them out" to get them hot by focusing on their clitoris and glans clitoridis and then engage in a long, hot fuck with them. Sadly Gary disappeared from mIRC and the Net generally in 2005. I miss him very much. We were even thinking of meeting socially in a bar downtown somewhere, and I don't mean a gay bar. He seemed open to coming sometime to my apartment here jocked and cupped in a baseball uniform for some sexual congress. And, yes, Gary, so he said, played on his company's softball team during the summer and wore a BIKE CUP.

Gary loved to tease his glans and exult in his penis consciousness. Two other guys on mIRC who were into Penis enjoyed chatting with Gary. All I can say is that I miss Gary even now. mIRC has not been the same since his departure.

So the glans as spark plug. No sexually alert guy who is into his penis can ignore his glans. In the way it is the source of sexual pleasure, even in a way his sexual being. The glans is out there for all to see. It serves as sexual signaling. It is a lodestar, I suppose, a guy's North Star. Every guy's glans is distinctive adding to the wonder that is the human male penis. A guy's glans has generally a cap and a meatus (cum/piss slit from which emit urine and semen). And proceeding from the meatus on the underside of the glans is a groove that ends up at the frenulum (or frenulear area of the penis where the frenulum has been excised in many circumcised males). Hence when you look at a guy's glans on the underside, the groove gives the appearance of two lobes which are pronounced in most guys. The amazing thing about my glans (and I suppose the glans of other guys, of which many have told me in our chats on the Net) is the variation in the texture of exquisite pleasure in the areas of the glans. So alot of guys say that this this groove is quite sensitive. So is the flange or rim of glans as well the groove that rounds around the glans. Many guys who have been circumcised as adults say that a G-spot or "sweet spot" develops where the frenulum has been excised. All I can say that all this description is beautiful. It produces sexual bliss to the sexually aware guy.

Also alot of circed guys, myself included, have noticed in their masturbatory explorations that this exquisite pleasure travels out in a zone to the circumcision scar, in my case, a good 1.5 inches from my glans. It is interesting to note that RIC [Routine Infant Circumcision] was practiced from the latter decades of nineteenth century to the 1970's as a means of reducing sexual sensitivity. That may be so, in prolonging time to sexual climax in circed males, itself an advantage. But I revel in the exquisite, sweet pleasure, that I derive from my RIC'ed penis, especially my RIC'ed flared glans.

Finally there is glans teasing. Glans teasing is useful for bringing yourself to a sexual "boil" during a long and leisurely masturbation session. That is what I have been doing in the two hours in the composition of this blog entry. But glans teasing is also helpful in producing in quickie climax in two/three minutes flat. Many guys including myself have developed this technique from adolescence by which you take your glans with two or three of your fingers and squeeze it lightly rhythmically. The glans truly "sparks" the pulsation of the penis and prostate (and associated organs) in producing a quick climax complete with orgasm and ejaculation of semen!

It is interesting to note (and I hope you are not grossed out) that that is how semen is collected from stallions for artificial insemination of mares. Several guys will induce a sexually charged stallion (using through "teasing" him with a mare nearby) to mount a dummy mare which has a rubber vagina large enough for the stallion's penis to slip in. At the end of this artificial vagina (or sleave) is a bulb large enough for the glans penis of the stallion (which surprisingly resembles a man's glans). This bulb I hear has warm water circulating over it. And the attendant will then squeeze the bulb lightly in the same way I described above to induce orgasm and ejaculation of semen from the stallion, which many of us know, is quite copious, and resembles our own semen! I have been teasing my semi-erect penis and oozing glans in my new C-IN2 jock while typing all this. Damn, I am so horny in this long post that I am almost ready to shoot my load of semen!

P.S. Hi guys. I feel compelled to add this one thought to this entry. Various types of STD's [Sexually Transmitted Diseases] have been with us humans even from prehistory. Now with the prevalence of HIV/AIDS, sexual diseases like gonorrhea, syphilis, and climidia, sexual partners (even married partners) have to take precautions, practice safe sex. I write this as an addendum that oral sex is just as risky as anal intercourse, even perhaps unprotected vaginal intercourse. A true lover looks after his partner, is concerned for his/her sexual safety. That I believe is the height of true love. While sexual fantasies may fuel one's sexual fire, they have to be tempered by reality and caution.

More on porking off

Hi guys,

Damn! My RIC'ed penis and I are having such a good time this morning that for the last couple hours typing entries for this blog, jacking off, and chatting with buds on the Net. But this morning since I am on vacation, he and I are having a very serious date. That means I am not going to get my rocks off for a while yet.

I had mentioned several weeks ago that I learned the expression porking off from my younger brother many years ago when I was entering adolescence and he was not far behind. He said that porking off meant jacking off, masturbating to orgasm and ejaculation. He learned that expression, so he said, from classmates in school.

Here is what I have submitted today to www.UrbanDictionary.com:

"Definitions:

"Pork off as a verb means to masturbate to climax, complete with orgasm and ejaculation of semen among males.

"Pork off as a noun means cum, ejaculate, semen.

"Examples:

"Oh, you are porking off, said to me by younger brother, when I was masturbating and emitting pre-ejaculate (precum) from my glans penis. I was a few months away from my first, true masturbation to orgasm, with a spectacular ejaculation of semen (cum).

"Oh, you have pork off (but that was precum) on your belly, so my brother said, but that was before I achieved masturbation with orgasm, complete with [pork off], cum, semen.

"I heard these two expressions from my younger brother as I was entering adolescence and he not far behind. We were engaging in innocent sexual play then.

"Synonyms: Masturbation, Jacking off, Beating off, Beating the meat, Semen, Ejaculate, Cum, Related to pork a woman/man, coitus, fucking, sexual congress."

Completion of post, Sunday afternoon, November 18.

I submitted my new definitions of porking off, both verb and noun, to UrbanDictionary.com. on November 9. My post is still under review. I don't know why it is taking so long.

Since then I have had a several hot chats with guys on mIRC and allkink.com on porking off. A gay guy on allkink.com in the Jock Zone chatroom told me that he too learned this expression as an adolescent. He told me that he enjoys porking other guys, fucking them. And porking off for him is the same as masturbation, jacking off, beating the meat, etc.

A bisexual guy near my age tells me that he loves to pork both mouth and ass, I guess mostly of guys, although I suppose women enjoy sucking his cock. Yes, porking off for him means jacking off, masturbation to climax complete with orgasm and ejaculation of semen!

Perhaps the most amazing chat on this topic occurred with a 19 yo guy who told me that porking off for him is a sustained or continuous sexual orgasm, if that is possible. Perhaps more realistic is a sexual high or nirvana (I hope my Vedanta friends don't take offense at this, a Sexual Samadhi or absorption into Penis through continuous masturbation with sustained edging). Many young guys (I mean guys at the threshold of masculine maturity at age 21) or even sex athletes (jackoff artists) can have a series of orgasms, perhaps with multiple ejaculations of semen, if that is possible in a marathon jack off session :-)

Both pork and pork off have an active, virile meaning of male sexual expression. To pork a woman or man does not mean rape, at least I hope. It just means a powerful, dynamic fuck which brings powerful and fulfilling pleasure to both fucker and fuckee. Likewise, to pork off is an absolutely powerful and active masturbation session in which a man experiences absolute sexual bliss through his penis and exults in his rejuvenating virility.

Early Columbus Day evening bate date

Hi guys,

After composing the last entry to this blog early this afternoon, I felt drowsy and took a long holiday nap. I laid down on my futon with nothing on except a pair of Munsingwear Kangaroo Pouch briefs. My earlier horniness was subsumed in this beautiful, relaxing nap.

But now it is heading toward sunset and my penis, my best buddy, wants some loving. I am naked right now buck naked with only a black Under Armour men's large cup jockstrap. These jocks can be worn with or without an athletic cup. But my RIC'ed penis is so sleepy that I will wait until later on.

Continuation: I have slipped off the UA jock, much as I like it, and I am entirely buck naked. While typing this section, I am preparing a bowl of Campbell's mushroom soup, heavily fortified with milk, my favorite. This soup resembles semen, cum. I hope you don't get grossed out by this description. But damn, deep down inside, I am horny and want so much a date with my RIC'ed penis. My penis loves this talk and is waking up from his slumber.

I have just prepared the mushroom soup with a can of whole milk and put on the stove at low heat. Somehow my penis even in his repose loves this talk: Milk, cream, semen. Semen which a human male produces is certainly thick and creamy. But its texture and even color varies according to the frequency of sexual congress or masturbation session. If a guy masturbates every day or several times a week, his semen has the consistency of milk, whereas if he masturbates or has sex once a week or even more once every two weeks, his semen may be more copious and have a creamy consistency. Semen is truly the essence of the male, a product of his testicles, prostate, and seminal vesicles. Semen is produced in the heat of passion of sexual congress (fucking) or masturbation in the climax of the ecstasy of orgasm and ejaculation.
Semen has nutrients which enable the spermatozoa to swim to the female egg in a woman's cervix. That is why male semen is so potent.

But it goes much further than this. Both male and female sex organs are called genitals because they procreate for the propagation of the species. That is why sexual activities are so alive, this includes masturbation. Sex if rightly used in lovemaking is pleasurable, powerful for the bonding of sexual partners. This is true for the dedicated masturbator, who looks upon masturbation as a serious date between himself and his body with the penis being a potent sex tool of this bonding.

Males more so than females tend to be graphic in their description of genitals and sexual acts. Their descriptions and terminology used may verge on the vulgar. Sex slang is not used in polite company, but it is used among males in their private, confidential conversations as male bonding. Hence sex slang while vulgar is powerful and descriptive. Most males love to hear sex slang. It makes them glad that they are male. Sex slang if properly used is also a potent aphrodisiac.

Masturbation while not generally used in polite society or even on the airwaves is a neutral term. Jacking off, Beating off, Beating the meat, and the like are both descriptive of the fact that masturbation is a powerful act of self-love. Likewise, fucking, laying pipe, plowing cunt, and the like, are powerful terms of coitus.

When I was eleven and entering puberty, my younger brother and I shared a bedroom at home. For several months, early in the morning during the winter, he and I would get in bed and play with each other. We would feel each other's penis and revel in innocent sex play. Even at this time, when I played with my penis, or he, I would ooze precum. He would say, "Oh, you are porking off". I think he picked that up from his classmates at school, and I think he meant jacking off and cumming. He said so several times. We continued these early morning sessions until I got into high school and achieving sexual maturity in masturbation. By that time, our parents gave us separate bedrooms. My brother and I grew apart from that time. He's straight; I'm gay.

To "pork" a woman is a vulgar, yet potent term for a good, hard fuck. It is the kind of fuck a boar has with a sow to produce a litter of piglets. Hence, the term "porking off" is a good, potent masturbation session which produces a load of thick semen!,

Columbus Day Afternoon heat

Hi guys,

I woke up feeling at my accustomed hour at 6 a.m. real horny with a boner that had a sweet zing to it. This sweet zing was centered in my glans but radiated through my pulsating penis to my testicles and prostate. Hot! But I had to run some errands soon after, so I had to postpone a masturbation session until now this afternoon. It is a early warm Columbus Day afternoon here in DC, actually on its way to getting hot. Washington, DC is infamous for its hot, sultry climate which begins in earnest in May and lasts at least until September, sometimes October. This heat, at times fierce, saps even healthy people of their accustomed strength and makes them languid and listless, even with the wonders of modern-day air conditioning.

There is another heat, that of the sexual impulse, that most males experience almost every day. It is centered in their loins and groin, but finds its most powerful or noticeable expression in the erections that many sexual alert males experience almost every day of their lives, especially when they are in good health. The Good Lord has given us this heat, this sexual vibrancy and impulse, ultimately for the procreation of the human species, in sexual congress with receptive females, ideally (and ethically) with lifelong mates, wives in the bond of Holy Matrimony. I mean the rhetoric one hears all too often these days here in the USA, "One man and one woman."

I hate to sound sexist and chauvinistic, but I think it is true. It is far more common for the male to be a live wire when it comes to this sexual impulse, this sexual heat, than most females. Males from adolescence on are more likely to have sex on their minds, to have a sex consciousness, than most females. All this points to the difference of sexual equipment between males and females. As I have said in previous posts in this blog, the Good Lord has made the male penis to penetrate the female vagina to further the propagation of the human species. Through sexual intercourse, fucking, the male deposits his semen at the cervix of the female in her vagina at the climax of orgasm and ejaculation. Hopefully the proficient male lover will take his female partner along on the climb to the summit of the sexual act.

However in our modern era, we humans are more imaginative in matters of sex and lovemaking. The female may take the dominant role in her making love with her male partner. Then we have to take into account both gay and lesbian sexual relations.

But still, the sexual impulse in males is much more noticeable than in females. That is why, even here in the good ole USA, males generally, gays specifically, are more apt to be condemned as deviants more than females generally, lesbians specifically.

That is why the sexual impulse in the male is so undeniable. A sexual hot guy is sometimes described as a horndog. A horndog is a male dog that desperately wants sex with a bitch. Thus the male who masturbates is celebrating his God given gift for sex and masturbation.

Horniness and Sexual Vasocongestion

Hi guys,

As I do most Sundays, I wake up early, usually around 6 or 6:30 a.m. Today was no exception and I quickly bathed and shaved and went to church. (Yes, I do go to church). Today is the first day of autumn and while the temps here are still summery, fortunately we have low humidity, ingredients for football weather. Both Washington Redskins and Nationals have games today. The sun rose as a orangish red ball of fire!

There is another fire. It is the fire of sexual energy that healthy males have in their loins most days. Most males from puberty on experience morning erections. Morning erections are caused by super abundance of testosterone in males in the early morning hours. It is usually in those hours before sunrise that many males have erotic dreams, some of them turning in wet dreams resulting in emission of semen. But in most cases, a guy may wake with a hardon or a boner, which may be throbbing with sexual promise. That is how I felt when I came to as the sky was brightening with the approaching sunrise. Well, the needs of my best buddy had to be deferred with religious obligations that come on Sundays.

But any red blooded male, even if he has many demands in his life, whether it be with his career, family, religious organization, or even athletic team or sport (both Pro and amateur), cannot neglect his sexual desires or urges which comprise the state of horniness. Most guys, especially if they are adults, defer the sweetness of horniness to when he can spend with his sexual partner or himself. Horniness, sexual desire, only increases, becomes more urgent, becomes sweeter throughout the day or even more so throughout the week, to when he can't stand it any longer. Then that time of sexual congress with his partner through coitus or himself in masturbation is indeed a sweet time of communion. He may be so horny at that time he lubes a steady stream of precum before actual coitus.

The ancient Greeks had three words for 'love'. They are philia, love that is found in friendships; agape, altruistic, self-giving love, which they considered the highest form of love; and eros, erotic love found in sexual congress. Erotic love is sexual love, physical love expressed through our bodies either in sexual congress, that is the heart of coitus, fucking, or physical love of one's self which is the heart of masturbation. The Good Lord created the three types of love for us humans. Unfortunately, we humans through our societal mores tend to consider the free exercise of eros as shameful. Yes, there are the constraints of lawful marriage and sex in private behind closed and locked doors. But such shame is often so pervasive that it is the cause of serious sexual dysfunction.

Horniness in its most noticeable form is represented in the sexual vasocongestion of the male genitals. A guy then will have a throbbing erection that will not go away. If he hasn't had sexual activity for several days or a week, his seminal vesicles, prostate, and ancillary organs will be engorged with seminal fluids demanding release. This condition adds fuel to sexual passion, but the experienced lover of his significant other or himself will seek control in the sexual act which brings all to a shattering climax.

Irrepressible & Ejaculatory Inevitability

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Hi guys,

I tried to post an entry around 8 a.m. Friday morning. My seminal vesicles and prostate were fully loaded then. I was utterly surprised because I had a "short" masturbation session about the same time of day even though I had an appointment out later.

Irrepressible is how I describes a guy's sexual urge. The male, more so than the female, is more apt to have sexual urges. Males are fully wired for this type of rampant sexual energy which is centered in his groin, but which suffuses his entire body. The male by virtue of his sexual equipment was created to penetrate the vagina of the female with his penis. Vagina means sheath in Latin, a perfect receptacle for the penis. A man by virtue of their physique is apt to fuck the female with pelvic thrusts and then achieve orgasm and ejaculation of his semen at the cervix of the woman. The Good Lord created this arrangement for the propagation of the species. An experienced male lover woos the female, gets her hot through foreplay. Then he engages in a leisurely fuck during he brings her to heights of orgasm, over and over again, while he delays his own until he knows she is fully satisfied before he presses to his own orgasm and ejaculation of semen.

Irrepressible is how I also describe a guy's penis. A guy may have a demanding work-a-day life and demands of wife and children. It may be a little simpler for single, unattached guys. But many guys in modern American society are stressed out don't have much energy or time for sex, much less masturbation. But a guy's penis is charged with energy. That is what happens with a guy is horny as shown in the pics above.

Early Friday morning, my RIC'ed penis was insistent. He wanted some loving. So I gave it to him. We had a quickie and he ejaculated a load of thick semen. Surprisingly in less than eighteen hours he is rearing to go again. So I'll give him some sweet loving.

I have been riding the edge of ejaculatory inevitability for nearly two hours now. I have been teasing my glans and reveling in the sweet feelings of the bate.

JackinWorld Science Corner gives a good explanation of ejaculatory inevitability:


"For the male, orgasm almost always includes ejaculation, which occurs in two distinct stages: emission and expulsion. Emission occurs when semen collects in an upper part of the urethra known as the urethral bulb. As more semen collects in the urethral bulb, he develops the feeling he is about to ejaculate. This feeling is known as ejaculatory inevitability and usually lasts for 2 to 3 seconds. This is the "point of no return" — the man cannot be stopped from having the orgasm at this point. Expulsion, the second stage, involves rhythmic contractions of the muscles around the base of the penis and anus. These muscular contractions cause the semen to be propelled down the urethra and out of the body. There are normally 4 to 5 rhythmic contractions that occur at 0.8-second intervals, with the first ones being the strongest and most intense. During orgasm in both males and females the heart rate, blood pressure, and breathing rate all reach peak levels. Both males and females also release a hormone known as oxytocin from their posterior pituitary glands. This hormone is believed to help strengthen the pelvic-muscle contractions associated with orgasm."

But a lot of guys through edging learn how ride "ejaculatory inevitabilty" for as long as possible before slipping over to a shattering climax and powerful ejaculation of semen!

Take care.

Steady date on a Saturday night

Hi guys,

Couples generally have serious dates on Saturday nights. That is when work responsibilities are furthest from people's minds. So couples are able to give quality time to each other in a serious date, during which romance and smooching may take place. Serious couples may engage in foreplay which may lead to actual sex. Teenage couples may very well engage in petting which may inflame the boy and girl "to go all the way", though our society generally frowns on this. Married couples within bonds or even the solace of marriage are much more fortunate. They may kiss and caress in public, but generally the actual foreplay and main course of coitus, fucking is saved for the bedroom generally. This is true for many gay couples, especially those in a committed relationship.

A man and his penis, especially if he is older and on his own, has the same fortune as married couples. He may have sexual thoughts throughout the day or be in a state of horniness. But generally the older, experienced masturbator will save such intimacy with his best buddy in his bedroom. That is much better because there is little risk involved, like masturbating in public or engaging in risky oral sex in public mens rooms, such as happened to Senator Craig of Idaho, when he was caught solliciting for oral sex by a plainclothes police office in a men's room in Minneapolis National Airport on June 11 of this year. My thoughts on such behavior is this: Such risky sex has a sexual charge to it, particularly if being busted or arrested is possible. I certainly do not want to have an arrest record or being placed on the national sex offenders list!

My penis is not interested at all in Senator Craig's arrest. My penis is much interested in our serious date tonight. He has waited perhaps over a week, and so have I. It is such a sweet time of reunion. Let the loving begin.

This blog entry is devoted to a blow-by-blow description of our date:

He is stirring right now, aching in anticipation and my glans is moist with precum at its meatus. My penis is short and thick, glans flared, raring to go. Right now I am viewing pics of baseball and football players. That often adds fuel to the sexual fire in my loins. I am stroking and caressing lightly my penis in this state, teasing my glans all the same.

Now I am grasping lightly penis just underneath my glans and with my forefinger and thumb squeezing repeatedly my glans. It feels so good. A pearl of precum is oozing from my cumslit and my penis pulses. Now I am spreading the precum all over my glans with my thumb.

Seeing models with their cocks in arousal is enough to get more serious into my bate. But I am taking my time tonight.

I love it when I stroke slowly and more insistently how my penis responds. He wants more loving.

After an intermission of four-five hours, I am back at it again. Both me and my penis began falling asleep. So I took a break and took a leak in the bathroom. I returned and visited the Jock Zone, the chatroom of allkink's web site. For almost a year, I couldn't access the room, but a Java update enabled me to login.

Afterward written early Sunday evening:

My date last night fizzled. Maybe later on tonight

Second afterward written late Friday night/early Saturday mornning nearly two weeks later:

Sent out earlier tonight seven job applications. My RIC'ed penis and I are celebrating. I am wearing a forest green Under Armour HeatGear Full T-shirt with hunter orange UA logo and a pair of white UA Core Vent Compression shorts. Feels real good!

Why do guys masturbate? A celebration

Why do guys masturbate? I guess it is like sex in general. Because it feels so good. The Good Lord made sex and masturbation to feel real good as an incentive for the propagation of the species.

My first day back at work went pretty well. I feel optimistic about the future with a solid job prospect coming my way. So my RIC'ed penis began nudging me as my workday wound down. I came home, wrote out my work diary, and then got comfortable by taking off my clothes, and sitting buck naked here before my PC. My apartment is dimly lit, a romantic setting for some lovemaking with my best buddy between my legs. He's been oozing out a steady stream of precum which shows that he is primed for action.

Male infants are known to pop boners. All boys from their earliest years love touching themselves "down there". Most boys also masturbate from their early years. Masturbation, lovemaking, and fucking are natural actions, although a guy as he grows into adulthood perfects and hones his cock strokes, whether masturbating or fucking. Like I said above wove this into our DNA. Likewise fucking is intimate and powerful bonding of sex partners, and masturbation is powerful way for male (or female) to get in touch intimately with his/her own body.

The sexual act usually begins with sexual play known as foreplay. Couples whether straight, gay, or lesbian begin with kissing and caressing each other's bodies. Foreplay lights the sexual fire of passion for the partners. Likewise, foreplay for the masturbator ignites and pours fuel on the fire of sexual passion between a man's legs. Tonight I am taking it slow playing and stroking lightly my erect, circumcised penis. My glans is a flared mushroom knob. At the same time, I am caressing my hairy body: hairy chest, abs, thick pubic bush, shaved ball sac, muscular hairy thighs. Also I am caressing lightly glans, flange, frenulear area, and just my cockshaft.

He loves my adoring attention. But tonight he is willing to have a prolonged session of foreplay before settling down to serious masturbation.