A week has elapsed since my last post in this blog. It is business as usual at my workplace these days. We are in a time of transition and uncertainty. The only thing I can do is just put in my eight hours Monday through Friday and have a businesslike relationship with my direct supervisor. That is for the best for me. Her bosses have high regard for my work. I am grateful for that kind of regard.
How does a guy unwind after the conclusion of a work week. Well, he may go to his favorite restaurant with his sweetheart or enjoy the camaraderie of a neighborhood bar over drinks. Or he may watch television to relax.
Straight guys go out on dates with their sweethearts. Particularly among teenagers, a guy with his girlfriend out on a serious date is a special time. Often their affection may be physical with kissing, petting, and necking, making out. Such physicality may stoke the flames of sexual ardor among a guy and his girl. This ardor may lead to serious loving making in bed. "Going all the way" is sexual congress, coitus to its logical conclusion in a sexual climax which melts hearts and brings about union. Of course, societal norms prevent this consummation long before, at least until marriage. But we live in times when all is possible.
Gay guys are perhaps more direct in their lovemaking. Two men making love are the intensification of male sexual passion to the power of two, if not more. I know. There is nothing more beautiful or more powerful than turning on a guy through sexual stimulation. Yes, there are the subtle actions of kissing, petting, and necking among male lovers. It is awesomely beautiful seeing male lovers making out. But invariably their attention is focused upon their genitals, often in the state of arousal. That is the epitome of horniness and randiness in the male. Most sexually aroused guys are direct in what they want from their partners. They want to suck and fuck.
The same can be said about male masturbation. Most guys engage in a serious date with their penis. The frequency of such dating varies. The male is perhaps most sexually potent in his late teens or early twenties. It is shown in the steep angle of his erection, his pork missile as it juts out of his pants and aims for the skies. Most guys during that period may masturbate once every day or even several times a day. Thereafter the frequency lessens to two or three times a week. By the time, a man enters his forties or fifties, he may masturbate once a week or once every two weeks. That is my experience presently.
For most men entering middle age, masturbation may be the main form of sex that is enjoyable for themselves. Many women as they age lose interest in frequent sex, or sex altogether. So a married man is left with his one-eyed buddy between his legs. Masturbation provides a safe outlet for his sexual drive and keeps him in touch the dynamic of his male sexuality which is filled with pleasure and health giving vitality. Likewise for most gay men and many single unattached bachelors, masturbation serves the same purpose as their married brothers. Masturbation is the great equalizer and leveler among males, irrespective of their sexual orientation. Many guys from their teens may be drawn toward each other in mutual masturbation or group masturbation, a circle jerk. There is something irresistible about jacking another guy's penis and he yours. This is concrete, affirming mutuality.
Most guys, especially if they live in the country, love the outdoors. Traditionally it was men who spent time outdoors hunting and the women kept hearth and home, perhaps gathering fruits and berries, at least in prehistoric times. I realize that this sounds sexist. But even now, many males are in close touch with nature, the cosmos.
But there is a different cosmos, that is found within. Mystics through spiritual practice, both male and female, are in touch with both the outer and inner cosmos.
But there is the inner cosmos that is physical that sexual expression unlocks. Coitus, sexual intercourse, fucking unlocks the inner physical cosmos to fucker and fuckee. Likewise for the dedicated masturbator, a rich inner cosmos is opened up and explored, a cosmos of sensual pleasures beyond measure. For a RIC'ed baby boomer jock like me, I revel in the pleasures my RIC'ed penis and bulbous, mushroom glans deliver to me beyond measure.