Petting and necking, making out

Hi guys,

A week has elapsed since my last post in this blog. It is business as usual at my workplace these days. We are in a time of transition and uncertainty. The only thing I can do is just put in my eight hours Monday through Friday and have a businesslike relationship with my direct supervisor. That is for the best for me. Her bosses have high regard for my work. I am grateful for that kind of regard.

How does a guy unwind after the conclusion of a work week. Well, he may go to his favorite restaurant with his sweetheart or enjoy the camaraderie of a neighborhood bar over drinks. Or he may watch television to relax.

Straight guys go out on dates with their sweethearts. Particularly among teenagers, a guy with his girlfriend out on a serious date is a special time. Often their affection may be physical with kissing, petting, and necking, making out. Such physicality may stoke the flames of sexual ardor among a guy and his girl. This ardor may lead to serious loving making in bed. "Going all the way" is sexual congress, coitus to its logical conclusion in a sexual climax which melts hearts and brings about union. Of course, societal norms prevent this consummation long before, at least until marriage. But we live in times when all is possible.

Gay guys are perhaps more direct in their lovemaking. Two men making love are the intensification of male sexual passion to the power of two, if not more. I know. There is nothing more beautiful or more powerful than turning on a guy through sexual stimulation. Yes, there are the subtle actions of kissing, petting, and necking among male lovers. It is awesomely beautiful seeing male lovers making out. But invariably their attention is focused upon their genitals, often in the state of arousal. That is the epitome of horniness and randiness in the male. Most sexually aroused guys are direct in what they want from their partners. They want to suck and fuck.

The same can be said about male masturbation. Most guys engage in a serious date with their penis. The frequency of such dating varies. The male is perhaps most sexually potent in his late teens or early twenties. It is shown in the steep angle of his erection, his pork missile as it juts out of his pants and aims for the skies. Most guys during that period may masturbate once every day or even several times a day. Thereafter the frequency lessens to two or three times a week. By the time, a man enters his forties or fifties, he may masturbate once a week or once every two weeks. That is my experience presently.

For most men entering middle age, masturbation may be the main form of sex that is enjoyable for themselves. Many women as they age lose interest in frequent sex, or sex altogether. So a married man is left with his one-eyed buddy between his legs. Masturbation provides a safe outlet for his sexual drive and keeps him in touch the dynamic of his male sexuality which is filled with pleasure and health giving vitality. Likewise for most gay men and many single unattached bachelors, masturbation serves the same purpose as their married brothers. Masturbation is the great equalizer and leveler among males, irrespective of their sexual orientation. Many guys from their teens may be drawn toward each other in mutual masturbation or group masturbation, a circle jerk. There is something irresistible about jacking another guy's penis and he yours. This is concrete, affirming mutuality.

Most guys, especially if they live in the country, love the outdoors. Traditionally it was men who spent time outdoors hunting and the women kept hearth and home, perhaps gathering fruits and berries, at least in prehistoric times. I realize that this sounds sexist. But even now, many males are in close touch with nature, the cosmos.

But there is a different cosmos, that is found within. Mystics through spiritual practice, both male and female, are in touch with both the outer and inner cosmos.

But there is the inner cosmos that is physical that sexual expression unlocks. Coitus, sexual intercourse, fucking unlocks the inner physical cosmos to fucker and fuckee. Likewise for the dedicated masturbator, a rich inner cosmos is opened up and explored, a cosmos of sensual pleasures beyond measure. For a RIC'ed baby boomer jock like me, I revel in the pleasures my RIC'ed penis and bulbous, mushroom glans deliver to me beyond measure.

Serious love making

Hi guys,

The male who is intent on masturbation focuses on his penis. He focuses on the intimate friendship he has with his one-eyed buddy between his legs. It is interesting to note that the penis is a miniature version of a man's body. A man's penis certainly doesn't have legs and arms, but it seems to sprout from a guy's crotch. Indeed the base of a guy's penis is called a root where the ejaculatory bulb, Cowper's gland, prostate, seminal vesicles are located. Of course, we can't forget a guy's testicles so necessary for manufacture of his sperm and male hormones. It is absolutely beautiful to see a guy's flaccid penis hanging in repose over his scrotum. But even more majestic to observe his penis in proud erection.

While one may admire the raw beauty of a guy's uncircumcised penis, in which his foreskin covers his glans, and while it is generally an erotic sight to see his uncut glans unfurled, more so circumcision enhances the cleancut appearance of the male penis. In most circumcised males, the glans is very much the head of the penis. Here you can see clearly the one-eyed glans, the piss/cumslit, or meatus, often oozing viscous precum during sexual excitement.

With all these thoughts in mind, you and your one-eyed buddy enter into sweet communion and fellowship in masturbation, just as I am doing right now tonight. I am wearing one of my GO Softwear Suspensory jocks and a new pair of Munsingwear Kangaroo Pouch briefs with my semi-erect penis hanging out of both articles of clothing. I am well along to orgasmic, thick, creamy ejaculatory sweetness in my lovemaking.

Take care.

Why do guys masturbate? A celebration

Why do guys masturbate? I guess it is like sex in general. Because it feels so good. The Good Lord made sex and masturbation to feel real good as an incentive for the propagation of the species.

My first day back at work went pretty well. I feel optimistic about the future with a solid job prospect coming my way. So my RIC'ed penis began nudging me as my workday wound down. I came home, wrote out my work diary, and then got comfortable by taking off my clothes, and sitting buck naked here before my PC. My apartment is dimly lit, a romantic setting for some lovemaking with my best buddy between my legs. He's been oozing out a steady stream of precum which shows that he is primed for action.

Male infants are known to pop boners. All boys from their earliest years love touching themselves "down there". Most boys also masturbate from their early years. Masturbation, lovemaking, and fucking are natural actions, although a guy as he grows into adulthood perfects and hones his cock strokes, whether masturbating or fucking. Like I said above wove this into our DNA. Likewise fucking is intimate and powerful bonding of sex partners, and masturbation is powerful way for male (or female) to get in touch intimately with his/her own body.

The sexual act usually begins with sexual play known as foreplay. Couples whether straight, gay, or lesbian begin with kissing and caressing each other's bodies. Foreplay lights the sexual fire of passion for the partners. Likewise, foreplay for the masturbator ignites and pours fuel on the fire of sexual passion between a man's legs. Tonight I am taking it slow playing and stroking lightly my erect, circumcised penis. My glans is a flared mushroom knob. At the same time, I am caressing my hairy body: hairy chest, abs, thick pubic bush, shaved ball sac, muscular hairy thighs. Also I am caressing lightly glans, flange, frenulear area, and just my cockshaft.

He loves my adoring attention. But tonight he is willing to have a prolonged session of foreplay before settling down to serious masturbation.