Sunday, November 18, 2007
The glans as spark plug
Boy! I'm horny this afternoon, in a sexual daze, sexual bliss washing over me from my semi-erect RIC'ed penis and cumfilled balls in one of my new C-IN2 jockstraps, a black one. Boy, these jocks hold your male equipment in the way jockstraps were created to do.
This blog post is a meditation on the glans penis. I have spoken much about the male glans in almost every post of this blog which is devoted to me as a baby boomer RIC'ed jock. When I slipped on that very first athletic supporter at the beginning of 7th grade, it was a sexual awakening for me. I just loved how that youth size Johnson & Johnson athletic supporter supported and held my fast developing adolescent testicles and RIC'ed penis. I got one of those throbbing erections when I slipped on that for the best time, so I had to readjust myself with my penis in the twelve o'clock position, vertical like a missile ready for launch. The rockhard boner was scrunched against the waistband of my newly bought jockstrap. Immediately I loved how the poroknit jock pouch caressed and stimulated my glans. It was a feeling that I felt never before in my life. It was tantamount to a sexual awakening in which I was being propelled into male sexual maturity. I could have experienced my first full-fledged orgasm with ejaculation of semen while wearing that jock.
Time for another anatomy lession. I used the term male glans for a reason. Females have a glans too. This may come as a surprise to many men and boys. The male glans is called glans penis, penis head, cockhead, knob, mushroom, helmet. The female glans is called glans clitoridis, glans of the clitoris, the female counterpart to the male penis. All guys have a glans. In uncircumcised guys, the glans is most or all the time covered by the foreskin. If a guy unsheathes his foreskin, his glans tends to be arrow shaped. But there are quite a few uncircumcised guys with mushroom glans which even show in an unfurled foreskin. The glans does flare out noticeably when a guy is circumcised, particularly if he is RIC'ed as a neonatal. RIC'ed guys tend to have glans that are absolute mushrooms or knobs or helmets. Their glans are absolutely awesome!
Which leads us to appearance. The glans was meant to complement or complete the look of a guy's penis. A sexually aroused guy not only has an erect penis but also a flared glans. Hence the glans serves as sexual signaling for prospective mates or an inducement for sexual congress with a partner. A woman will be turned on by her partner's erect penis and flared glans in the same way that a man will be turned on by a woman's breasts. Guys attracted to other men are natural horndogs when it comes to another penis, any penis. I think that is hardwired in the gay and bi psyche.
Of course there is sensation in the jam-packed nerves of the glans which gives sexual expression its charge. Hence, the glans, I believe, acts as a spark plug to its owner and to the partner in the sex act. I think the Good Lord planned that way as an inducement for the propagation of the species, of which sexual pleasure and satisfaction is a major spine-off.
In many of my chats with other guys on the Net, particularly on the #jack-off-str8 chatroom on mIRC, I think that most men just love to suck cock, even though they may be adverse to it or not admit it to themselves. I think all this goes back to babyhood. Babies from day one after birth suck naturally. It is instinctual for a baby to suck his/her mother's breasts. The erect circumcised penis with a flared glans oozing precum invites a willing male mouth. Guys love their cock being sucked by a willing male mouth and many guys just love to suck cock. Women are more reticent which seems natural. Guys seem instinctively know how to give oral pleasure to another male's genital organ mainly because the exquisite pleasure he gives himself through masturbation. The feeling of a warm tongue and mouth on a guy's glans gives him exquisite pleasure. I suppose it is similar to the penis thrusting back and forth in a woman's vagina (although I have never had that experience). Now I will be technical in my use of language. There is a Latin word for sucking cock. That is fellatio. Now it is interesting that fellatio has both an active and passive meaning. The one who receives a cock to suck is doing it in a sort of passive way, but also in an active way, if he is a good cocksucker or fellator. But there is also the act of face fucking, giving cock to suck, which in earlier years, perhaps decades or centuries was called irrumatio.
An experienced male lover of women will carry this over to cunnilingus, licking a woman's cunt which technically consists of the urethral oriface, vagina, labiora majora and minora. There is also the mons pubis (covered by female pubic hair), the clitoris, and prepuce. Now the female clitoris and prepuce corresponds to the male penis and foreskin if left uncircumcised. Some women prefer their prepuce to be excised thus making eh clitoris more available to her partner. This is essentially female circumcision, these days a most controversial topic of discussion on the world stage. But female circumcision as practiced in some nations is essentially a form of mutilation. A few years ago I had a most interesting chat on Yahoo IM with a doctor who himself was circumcised as an adult in his 30's. He encountered a lady who had her prepuce or hood surgically removed through circumcision. He thought himself an experienced lover of women in that he enjoyed giving cunnilingus to women who loved his expert tongue licking their "private parts", e.g. clitoris and entrance to their vagina. Now the clitoris of a sexually aroused woman is itself erect and the glans clitoridis will flare out in sexual excitement much in the same way the flared glans of the erect penis of a sexually charged man. I learned much from the two chats on Yahoo IM from this Ohio doctor on both male and female circumcision and sex itself.
I used to have many chats with a guy named Gary somewhere in the Maryland suburbs of DC on mIRC on all these potent topics. Gary and I had alot in common. Both he and I were RIC'ed, had a common interest in jocks, cups, and Munsingwear Kangaroo briefs. He was a total jackoff artist, totally into this circumcised penis, and especially into his glans. But Gary, so he said, enjoyed loving women. He knew how to "eat them out" to get them hot by focusing on their clitoris and glans clitoridis and then engage in a long, hot fuck with them. Sadly Gary disappeared from mIRC and the Net generally in 2005. I miss him very much. We were even thinking of meeting socially in a bar downtown somewhere, and I don't mean a gay bar. He seemed open to coming sometime to my apartment here jocked and cupped in a baseball uniform for some sexual congress. And, yes, Gary, so he said, played on his company's softball team during the summer and wore a BIKE CUP.
Gary loved to tease his glans and exult in his penis consciousness. Two other guys on mIRC who were into Penis enjoyed chatting with Gary. All I can say is that I miss Gary even now. mIRC has not been the same since his departure.
So the glans as spark plug. No sexually alert guy who is into his penis can ignore his glans. In the way it is the source of sexual pleasure, even in a way his sexual being. The glans is out there for all to see. It serves as sexual signaling. It is a lodestar, I suppose, a guy's North Star. Every guy's glans is distinctive adding to the wonder that is the human male penis. A guy's glans has generally a cap and a meatus (cum/piss slit from which emit urine and semen). And proceeding from the meatus on the underside of the glans is a groove that ends up at the frenulum (or frenulear area of the penis where the frenulum has been excised in many circumcised males). Hence when you look at a guy's glans on the underside, the groove gives the appearance of two lobes which are pronounced in most guys. The amazing thing about my glans (and I suppose the glans of other guys, of which many have told me in our chats on the Net) is the variation in the texture of exquisite pleasure in the areas of the glans. So alot of guys say that this this groove is quite sensitive. So is the flange or rim of glans as well the groove that rounds around the glans. Many guys who have been circumcised as adults say that a G-spot or "sweet spot" develops where the frenulum has been excised. All I can say that all this description is beautiful. It produces sexual bliss to the sexually aware guy.
Also alot of circed guys, myself included, have noticed in their masturbatory explorations that this exquisite pleasure travels out in a zone to the circumcision scar, in my case, a good 1.5 inches from my glans. It is interesting to note that RIC [Routine Infant Circumcision] was practiced from the latter decades of nineteenth century to the 1970's as a means of reducing sexual sensitivity. That may be so, in prolonging time to sexual climax in circed males, itself an advantage. But I revel in the exquisite, sweet pleasure, that I derive from my RIC'ed penis, especially my RIC'ed flared glans.
Finally there is glans teasing. Glans teasing is useful for bringing yourself to a sexual "boil" during a long and leisurely masturbation session. That is what I have been doing in the two hours in the composition of this blog entry. But glans teasing is also helpful in producing in quickie climax in two/three minutes flat. Many guys including myself have developed this technique from adolescence by which you take your glans with two or three of your fingers and squeeze it lightly rhythmically. The glans truly "sparks" the pulsation of the penis and prostate (and associated organs) in producing a quick climax complete with orgasm and ejaculation of semen!
It is interesting to note (and I hope you are not grossed out) that that is how semen is collected from stallions for artificial insemination of mares. Several guys will induce a sexually charged stallion (using through "teasing" him with a mare nearby) to mount a dummy mare which has a rubber vagina large enough for the stallion's penis to slip in. At the end of this artificial vagina (or sleave) is a bulb large enough for the glans penis of the stallion (which surprisingly resembles a man's glans). This bulb I hear has warm water circulating over it. And the attendant will then squeeze the bulb lightly in the same way I described above to induce orgasm and ejaculation of semen from the stallion, which many of us know, is quite copious, and resembles our own semen! I have been teasing my semi-erect penis and oozing glans in my new C-IN2 jock while typing all this. Damn, I am so horny in this long post that I am almost ready to shoot my load of semen!
P.S. Hi guys. I feel compelled to add this one thought to this entry. Various types of STD's [Sexually Transmitted Diseases] have been with us humans even from prehistory. Now with the prevalence of HIV/AIDS, sexual diseases like gonorrhea, syphilis, and climidia, sexual partners (even married partners) have to take precautions, practice safe sex. I write this as an addendum that oral sex is just as risky as anal intercourse, even perhaps unprotected vaginal intercourse. A true lover looks after his partner, is concerned for his/her sexual safety. That I believe is the height of true love. While sexual fantasies may fuel one's sexual fire, they have to be tempered by reality and caution.